An important thing to realize is that it doesn't make any difference how much difficulty there is - there
are always great possibilities in any situations.
Generally, when people are disheartened, they can's see the possibilities. They see only the difficulties
that are involved, not the solution. They magnify the difficulties, to blow them up, to make them bigger
that they actually are.
The thing to do when you are disheartened is that very opposite: go hunting around in your situation for
the bright possibilities that are surely there